I have always been comfortable with my body and my sexuality. I'm not ashamed of my body. And I personally think people who say they never masterbate are full of shit.
I wz married for 11 yrs to a man who cheated a lot.
but I never doubted myself.
I personally think that if someone makes their partner feel like they are inadequate than they need to take a long look in the mirror. Cuz in my ex husbands case last I checked no one wants a 2 min man.

 

I am not comfortable with my sexuality. I am bisexual out of physical desire not out of interest in males. I wish I could have a fully satisfying sexual relationship with a woman. I have been with three woman whom I loved and throughly enjoyed being with but I could never get enough sex. They were sexual but not at my level. I turned to men for physical pleasure. I would just as soon not do that thus not comfortable with my sexuality. This is still the situation and I am in my 60s. I started being bisexual in my mid 20's.

 

I am very comfortable with my sexuality .I am straight but have had 3sums with females and would do it again .Nobody puts me down or makes me feel bad about myself they soon get told my ex husband tried it and lost .Never be ashamed of who you are if people do not like it get them out of your life.

 

No, I have not always been comfortable with my sexuality. I have spent many years hiding my sexual desires because the society I grew up in would shame or humiliate anyone who had sexual interests other than sex with a spouse or person of the opposite sex that would likely become a future spouse. Everyone in that community was like that, so it seemed "normal" to me as I was going up.

More recently, I have been learning to deal with my issues and fears and actually communicating things with my wife. She has been a saint for me in that she has been understanding of what I desire. She may not be open to participating, or even wanting me to participate in some of my desires, but she has not shunned, humiliated, or degraded me for my desires yet. Much to my surprise, she has even been open to some of my desires so it has kindled a new spark in what was seeming to be a dead sex life with her. Regretfully some of the things she kept telling me "not now, later" have gotten to the point where she no responds with "I don't think I'll ever do that" or in one case, "I thought we already did that." (referring to sex outdoors in our back yard where now we have neighboring houses making that not possible without being in full view of at least 3 houses). In openly communicating with my wife, I am getting more comfortable in my sexuality.

 

@Rebelgirl78 as for my body there's always work to be done and I've sworn to the achieving goals that I've set to truly forge the perfect body within this year. Up to now it's been all lifting for strength and conditioning, so to see how the other half lives I'm embarking on the goal of reproducing the Drunken Satyr avatar you see in my profile and bodybuilder Frank Zane! As for my sexuality as well I'm comfortable being so open and free though I feel the changes for 2017 coming may expand my outlook and spark a bit more interest from onlookers? It should be an exciting year!
Zane is to the left!

 

No! Not that one time when I had the idea of putting my dick into a vacuum cleaner and turning it on!

 

Nina: I was brought up by a very sexually repressed mother.
Sex was something done to you. It was one of those things women were supposed to endure like menstruation and painful childbirth.
Women who enjoyed it were whores and deviates.
So when I was becoming sexually attracted to boys and enjoyed the things I was doing, I thought there was something wrong with me. (OMG! Am I a whore or deviant?)
It took me a while to realize that it wasn't society but my mother and people like her who were screwed up.

 

I'm very happy in my oun skin love my sexulaty,the women I've been with have liked me so far so I' good with my oun body

 

I think that my body is perfect the way it is. I was taught real women have curves. If we were stuck figures wat fun would that be. I appreciate that u want to work on ur body. And I hope u achieve the perfect body you are wanting. I feel like perfection is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has a different opinion. I'm sure ur body is perfect the way it is.

 

I've never been comfortable with my body, but sexuality isn't a huge issue for me. I like what I like because I do, and I've learned about other things that either sound interesting, or don't. I've added a few kinks and fetishes to my list by talking to people about them, or taken them off by doing the same or experiencing them for myself. Nothing wrong with that.

 

As I grew up I never really even thought about my sexuality or having sex at all for that matter, it was something I was aware of and knew the functions of the different organs involved but had no interest in or desire to participate in.
That was before the night when a wine cooler or two resulted in me being seduced by a buff, handsome, smooth talking, and as it turned out, very skilled lover.
It was as if a light switch had been flipped on in my brain and I became a very sexual person and I remain so even today.
At the end of the evening I knew that I was supposed to feel some shame or remorse for my actions but instead I felt invigorated and freed in some way.
I have come to understand that sex, the animal instinct to copulate is a base element of every animal on this planet and is totally separate from the mental bonding which we call love, yet our so called modern society has chosen to link sex and love into one and the same thing, which is wrong in my opinion.

 

I've always been comfortable with me. I was young, (a few of you know) when I became sexually active by way of my female cousin who was 2 years older than I was. I didn't even know what sexuality was then, I did know I enjoyed everything that happened that day and the months and years that followed. I remember friends telling me I cold not have a girlfriend and I told them I could have whatever I wanted. My father always told me "If there is something you want, you have to reach for it and take it." I did exactly that. I've had both girlfriends and boyfriends. I decided years ago, I am not ready for kids, I may never be ready for kids, I have a health issue I don't want t pass on. If I am not going to have kids, at least not now, I am going to do what I like, what makes me feel good. If my sexuality makes you uncomfortable, you don't have to talk to me or look at me. This is how I feel and this is why I am comfortable being who I am and with my sexuality.

 

I have always been comfortable with my sexuality. It was easy when I was completely straight, why wouldn't it? Now that I am actively seeking at least a suck buddy, I still feel completely comfortable with my decision. Hopefully, it remains this way.

 

I have always been comfortable with my sexuality, which was easy when I was completely straight. Now that I'm seeking that elusive suck buddy, I still remain completely satisfied with my decision. Let's hope I remain satisfied.

 

When I'm craving a thick, juicy, T bone steak, I have to satisfy my craving. You're satisfied with your decision. But you will never be truly satisfied, until you satisfy your craving.

 

To be honest not really. I cannot come out to my family and say I am pansexual. One they would not understand. Two they would take it as a joke. Three will say God made woman and men to be together for a purpose and if you so desire to be with a woman, non binary person, transgender, gender fluid and etc. they will say bluntly to my face: "You surely will go to hell for you have sin."

It will be too uncomfortable for be to come out as pansexual especially to my family because of those reasons! My friends on other hand doesn't seem too concern though they may not understand what pansexual is or how I can like people of all gender identification though.

 

If you do ever decide to come out to them, remind them that you do still likes guys as well and if you ever decide to fulfill "Gods" purpose for Man and Woman, you will surely enlist the help of one. Until then, you will do who you want, when you want!

 

Thank you for the advice! It is very much appreciated!

 

My body looks fine (I look a lot) and quite happy with my sexualities.

 

No, was perplexed by my sexual identity, my secret anus self-stimulation fetish very young. Plus being sexual molested by my eldest brother & an older neighbor boy. I even cont. the self- use of dildos after marriage. It wasn't until my early 60's that the oldest brother re-introduced anal sex ...me being the receiving partner that I clandestinely started meeting men to get laid (and suck cock) as a bi-sexual that I became quite happy with my sexualities.